Fall Family Fun Fair, 2013

     We are finally settled into a new school year, past the first round of sick bugs and Thanksgiving is just around the corner.  The days are getting shorter as the clock winds us ever closer to the holiday hub bub.  This year, we got to kick off fall with a bang by hosting the first ever annual Fall Family Fun Fair at our church.  What a great time we had planning, organizing and pulling off what turned out to be a truly successful event.  In my old life, BC, (Before Children), I was promoter and event planner, so this was an opportunity to dust off my old skill set and use them on something other than an insanely elaborate, themed birthday party for my kiddies.
As an added bonus, I got to utilize Pinetrest.  I have a love/hate relationship with the site.  As anyone who knows me can attest, I have a multitude of boards covering every conceivable topic and am constantly looking for great ideas to add to them.  It used to be that I was the one that threw the best parties because I was the one with the best ideas and I guarded them jealously.  The recipes, the decorating, the projects, the themes.  They were mine and if you wanted access to them it cost you.       Thanks to Pinterest, all that is over.  Anyone can plan a great event, with a minimum amount of time.  It's not all bad though.  I have a great new career in real estate and I can use my old skills for charitable events and fun, with much less stress.  I'm a little new to working cooperatively, when you're working with friends and volunteers, it's very important to be inclusive and polite, I've learned.  No paycheck means people are less likely to tolerate even a benevolent dictatorship.
Our lovely group of volunteers from Providence Community Church put together an amazing list of super fun activities for the families in Oak Bay to participate in.  We had pumpkin bowling, ring toss, an obstacle course, mask making, beading, face painting, clay creations.  Our big crowd pleasers were the Imagination Station, I was completely stunned and amazed by what the kids built out of blocks of wood, buttons, string, feathers, marbles and glue guns, The "Make Your Own Caramel Apple Bar", where kids got to dip a granny smith apples in a home made caramel dip and cover them in their choice of toppings, raging from mini marshmallows to gummy bears and everything in between.  Outside we had a "Haystack Candy scramble for kids to dig through for prizes, under a huge tent of course because this is Victoria.  Add to all that hot dogs and tons of baked goodies all donated to help raise money to send kids to school in Uganda.
    

Local Oak Bay businesses also donated a great array of prizes to be won by attendees.  It was a great way to introduce our selves to our neighbours, and in turn introduce them to a wonderful cause worth supporting in one of the most needed areas of our world.  Next year, hopefully, we'll get a little more cooperation from the Big Guy, and not have to implement a rain plan, but even if the weather is worse next year, we'll still have the inside of the Monterey Center, just in case.
Providence Community Church meets every Sunday at 1442 Monterey ave, Oak Bay, Victoria, at 10 am.  Everyone is welcome and we have a coffee meet and greet afterwards.  There are also lots of special events all year long.  For more information check out the website:   www.providencecommunitychurch.com

Summer in Victoria is well under way, with all the fun this wonderful area has to offer.  It is easy and tempting to overlook those that live outside our society's norm while we play in the sun.  The summer months bring a whole new set of obstacles facing the poorer families both here and around the world.  My boys and I spent our Sunday combining the summer outdoors with family, friends, food and altruism.  Sunday was a fundraiser for the Victoria Street Soccer Association, held at the main field behind Victoria High School.  It's not a very glamorous charity, mostly supported privately.  Weekly games are held year round for the marginalized of our society to participate in organized sports, get a meal, (provided by Fat Daddy's Bbq), build community ties and self esteem and in general, participate in the society around them in a meaningful way.  It is loosely affiliated with Street Soccer Canada and the Homeless World Cup and follows the same goals for reaching out to the community.  For more information their achievements and personal stories, as well as upcoming events, click this link:  http://www.streetsoccercanada.org/   The fundraiser on Sunday raised money to pay for the rental of the gym in the Fernwood Community Center over the winter so the players and supporters can get out of the cold wet weather while they participate.  It was a great day to enjoy a barbequed burger with my good friend Alicia and all our kids.  She made the time to come out and support the guys after just completing her own fundraiser for VIDEA, The Victoria International Development Education Association.  She, and her family, kids included, completed a Global Solidarity Challenge that had them trying to live without many of our first world perks.  My personal favorite highlight of her week was the wonderful pictures she posted of her kids enduring cold water bucket baths.  Click here for info on her pledge or to donate:  Alicia's paricipant page  It was a great day, with the only injury being sustained by my 4 year old, a bloody nose, caused by the 9 year old, soccer ball to the face.  We enjoyed our burgers in the sun and Fat Daddy's contribution to her cause put her over the $600 mark for the week.  It was a great way to support our community and pass on some of our good fortune to others as well as being a reminder to keep finding ways to reach out to others in our busy, busy lives.  The next time you are running around our amazing city, enjoying all our wonder amenities, it might be a nice idea to put your Costco card to good use and buy a flat of water to hand out to some of our less fortunate to help beat the summer heat.  Drinking water should be a basic human right, but for all too many in the world, it is a luxury.  I hope to see you out at the next fundraiser.  Info on VIDEA:  Victoria International Development Education Association

What do you think makes the difference between a house and a home?  The difference between a neighbourhood and a community?  I've come across a few items that seem at first trivial but make all the difference for me and my family.  The first item that tops my list is a double sink in the kitchen.  I never even realised how much that mattered until  had to make so with a single sink for a couple of months.  I have always known I hated doing dishes, but the one sink almost made me switch to disposable plates, and for someone as committed to environmental stewardship as I am, that's saying a lot!
At one time, I would have sworn that counter space was the one thing I couldn't live without in the kitchen, but thankfully the small appliance manufacturers have stepped up their game and you can get teeny, tiny blenders and food processors designed with today's kitchen sizes in mind.  Santa was good enough to bring us a fantastic little one with a 500 watt motor.  Thank you Santa!
We used it last night to make an amazing batch of home made, all natural almond and walnut butter.  The whole process took about 10 minutes, even with the help of a 4 year old pushing the buttons.  It was so easy and I wish I'd known how to do this years ago, considering how many "peanut free" classes and playgroups we've had over the last 9 years.  The top secret recipe that warrants what the nut butter companies charge is as follows:  First, dump a bunch of room temperature nuts in the processor, whatever combination you desire.  Turn it on.  Keep processing, stopping every once in a while to scrape down the sides.  First you'll get nut sand, then you'll get nut clumps, then you get nut putty, (nutty putty, ha ha) then after about 10 min, you get nut butter!  The longer you go, the creamier and butterier it will get.  You can add spices before you finish as well, cinnamon, cardamon, ginger, nutmeg, heck, garlic if you want.  Just think of the never ending possibilities.  Cashews, macadamia, sunflower.  Or seasonal flavours like pumpkin pie flavoured seed butter.  And it's so simple and fun it makes a great activity for the whole family to get involved in.
I also have to say I do prefer an open concept.  This too, was a late discovery as I have spent most of my life genuinely attracted to the architecture and designs from the 1920's through the early 1960's.  I've recently come to understand that my style has evolved beyond the love of Danish Modern to the realisation that any rooms that aren't part of the main flow of my home go largely unused.  I think it's been a by-product of the evolution of family and the more involved I become with my kids on a day to day, minute by minute basis, the more I truly enjoy them and the less I want walls and doors between us.  Though, it might also just be that as my kids get older and the messes get bigger and harder to contain, my standards just get lower and lower and I no longer feel the need to have a door to hide the mess behind when guests stop by.  Actually, the more I think about it, it's probably the latter.  Though being able to see them at all times even after I've taught them how to use the food processor probably has a little something to do with it as well.
If you're looking for some tips on what to look for before choosing a neighbourhood for your family to settle into, please check out my real estate website:  www.angeliquetroyer.ca 
For anyone new to either Victoria or parenting, or just thinking about either, there's plenty of the kind of activities that make a neighbourhood into a community available in the May/June issue of  Family Chatter May/June issue